Sun Dec 08, 2013 11:28 am by ARF-GEF
Without knowing much details, and knowing that these are always sensitive subjects:
That doesn't sound too good. Did you agree on a timeframe on doing it?
What I find a bit problematic is not the length of time but the sustained lack of answer. I had businesses drag on several months, and I'm wasn't pissed at all about it. One guy started out with saying it will take a while and I accepted that. I don't even mind that. Some people are just busy and life changed in a way that they have troubles to stick to their normal routine.
Heck even I forgotten about a trade once, but when I was reminded the first time I really got my shit together.
The long lack of communication, with repeated attempts on your side is the issue IMO.
The fact that there was no friction would mean to me that he probably means no harm. Not sure, I don't know the details.
I say give him one last chance, shoot him and email and a PM and if that doesn't reply it within 10 days, then I would probably loose my patience.
After that I think at least you deserve to get your money back.
Just my 2 cents.
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